Do you want to be better at interpersonal communication? Here's a simple way to improve. First: when

Do you want to be better at interpersonal communication?

Here's a simple way to improve. First: when you ask a question, pay attention to whether or not people answer the question you asked or some question you are really asking.

For example, you ask, "Is it raining out?" and they answer, "If you're wondering if we should still go out, I think we should."

This is hard because sometimes you are really asking that other question, but maybe you do just want to know if it's raining? Maybe you want your garden to get some rain? Maybe you just like weather?

It's always advantageous to answer questions directly first. Take people at their word. Answer what they ask.

OK, so once you start paying attention to how people answer questions, then start watching yourself. Do you answer questions directly or do you search around for the "real" question?

I promise you that if you start answering questions directly first from here on out, people will start to think of you as easier and easier to work with and talk to. And when people don't answer your questions directly, call them on it.

"OK but is it raining?"